How good are you at making decisions?
You are making decisions every day of your life. Everything you say and do is the result of a decision you have made, whether you make it consciously or not.
Making decisions to help you realize that you determine the outcome of your own life is not always easy, in fact, it is a hard task. All you need to do is take control of your destiny; you can do this by alternating your values and start taking control. This will help you to make your life more productive and fulfilling. When you feel you are ready to raise your standards write down all the things you will no longer accept in your life. When you have done that, write down your desires. People like Leonardo Da Vinci, Abraham Lincoln and many others took theses steps to raise their standards.
The same standards are available to you as they were to them, it is all part of your personal development, you just need the courage to claim it. Remember, whatever steps you take to change something, whether it is work related or a relationship, it all begins with changing yourself, its all part of self improvement and self growth.
If you are without belief, you cannot raise your standards; you will never have the conviction to carry them though. From the moment of making a decision, your destiny is shaped.
There are decisions you have to make every day of your life. These will control your destiny. You will start to notice how you feel, what you do, and ultimately what you are becoming. If you do not control making decisions, you are simply not in control of your life. When you are in control, you begin to sculpture your future.
The decisions are:
To start making decisions you have made in the past have determined who and where you are now. It is the three decisions above that help to create your destiny. If you are unaware of these facts the chances are you are not where you would like to be right now.
Making decisions is a mental tool. You can use it at any moment to change your entire life. The moment you make a decision, you have set in motion a new cause, effort, direction and destination for your life. You will literally begin to change your life the moment you make a decision.
Remember, if you start to feel that things are not going right, make another decision and change it. A real decision is measured by the fact that you take a new action. It is important to achieve balance and success, however, if there is no action you have not truly decided.
I realize that the hardest step in achieving anything in personal development is making a true commitment or true decision. To carry out your commitment is often much easier than the decision itself. So make your decisions intelligently, but make them quickly. Going over you decisions for a long time is no good. Studies have shown that the most successful people make decisions rapidly because they are clear on which direction they are traveling. Studies also show that people who fail usually are making decisions slowly. By changing their minds and always bouncing back and forth.
The more decisions you make the better a decision maker you will become. Unleash your powers right now by making a decision you have been putting off. You will not believe the energy and excitement it will create in your life.
There is no way around it; at times you are going to make a wrong decision. When this happens instead of beating yourself into the ground, ask yourself.
This failure may be a blessing in disguise especially if it helps you make better decisions in the future. So instead of looking at the setbacks learn a lesson from your failure. This can save you time and money and help you succeed in the future. Once you have made your decisions be flexible. By this I mean do not make a map, which you have to stay rigidly on, make sure you have a map with alternate routes.
Finally, if you now use these decision-making strategies, it will advance your personal development and increase your quality of life.