How to Get Your Ex Back Self-Help Books


Best fast and effective strategies for getting your ex back self-help books

Getting Him Back by Michael Webb

Getting Him Back by Michael Webb (4.6)

Getting the right advice is important, whether you want to get your ex back or you're just worried that he might leave one day. So how does Michael Webb's new "Getting Him Back" book compare to the rest?


I had to find out and this was what I found.


One of the most common pieces of advice found in these books is to 'just don't pursue him and he may eventually come back.' This advice is not only unhelpful but it can also be damaging. It assumes that the person will automatically come back if you simply leave them alone. This is not always the case.


Firstly, this advice completely disregards the fact that every relationship is unique. There is no 'one size fits all' solution to getting an ex back. Every individual and every relationship is different, so it is important to not rely on generic advice that may or may not work for your specific situation.


Another issue with this advice is that it ignores the possibility that your ex may have moved on or is seeing other people. In these cases, simply not pursuing them is not going to magically make them come back. It is important to acknowledge and accept the reality of the situation, rather than holding onto false hope.


In fact, blindly following this advice can do more harm than good. It may lead you to constantly wait for your ex to come back, preventing you from moving on and finding happiness for yourself. It can also create a sense of desperation and neediness, which can be unattractive and push your ex further away.


That kind of information is totally unhelpful, especially when you pay money for it! And worst of all, most of these books PROMISE they'll get your man back. How can they make claims like this when there are 1000's of possible scenarios you could experience?


Thankfully, "Getting Him Back" is different. It never tries to sugarcoat or get your hopes up. It stays grounded in the real world (where most of us live!)


Upon first glance I was very pleased with the content. The book started off with the most important topic of all: Do you REALLY REALLY want him back?


Making the decision to get back together with an ex-partner can be a difficult and emotional process. There are often lingering feelings and unresolved issues that need to be addressed before determining if getting back together is the right choice. This topic is covered in great depth and can be incredibly valuable.


Furthermore there is a list of 22 important questions that cover three key topics: how each person contributed to the breakup, how things will be different if you do get back together, and what questions you should ask yourself to help make the right decision.


Firstly, reflecting on how you and your partner contributed to the breakup is crucial in understanding what went wrong and what needs to change in order for the relationship to be successful in the future. This list of questions delves deep into this topic, asking thought-provoking questions such as 'Did you communicate your needs and concerns effectively?' and 'Were there any underlying issues or unresolved conflicts that led to the breakup?'


Similarly, examining how your partner contributed to the breakup is equally important in understanding their perspective and addressing any issues that may have caused tension in the relationship. These questions may include 'Was your partner able to meet your emotional needs?' and 'Did they take responsibility for their actions or blame others?'


The second topic covered is how things will be different if you do get back together. It's important to identify what needs to change in order for the relationship to thrive the second time around. Questions such as 'Have you both grown and matured since the breakup?' and 'Have you discussed how you will handle conflicts and disagreements in a healthier way?' can help determine if the necessary changes have been made.


Finally, the list concludes with questions that you should ask yourself to help make the right decision. These may include 'Do I still have strong feelings for my ex?' and 'Am I willing to forgive and move on from past hurts?' These questions encourage introspection and self-reflection, allowing you to truly evaluate if getting back together is the best choice for both parties involved.


Overall, t "Getting Him Back" does a great job of covering the topic of getting back together with an ex in great depth. By providing a comprehensive list of questions, it ensures that individuals do not make the same mistakes over and over again. Instead, it encourages honest and thorough reflection, helping individuals make a well-informed decision that is in their best interest.


Once you're 100% sure you want him back, the book moves into the breakup material. It begins with the breakup itself and covers everything all the way up to catching up with him again, covering each stage step-by-step.


I love that this book is FOR WOMEN ONLY. Most of these books are NOT gender specific, which of course is ridiculous because most of us would agree that men and women are completely different creatures.


So, is the book perfect? No.
While using canned speeches could work against your efforts by making your ex suspicious, it still would have been nice to see some examples in this book to help paint the picture.


However, all in all, this is still the best "getting the love of your life back" book I've seen in a long time I highly recommend it to any woman who wants her sweetheart back, or is having relationship trouble, or is just worried that her man may leave her one day.


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The EX Factor by Brad Browning

The EX Factor by Brad Browning (4.9)

When I first stumbled across Brad Browning's new "Ex Factor Guide" program, I thought it would probably be like all the rest of the 'ex back' products for sale on the internet. Boy, was I wrong!


First of all, "The Ex Factor Guide" is easily the most thorough and comprehensive guide ever written on the subject. It leaves no stones unturned: you may think that your situation is unique, and that any book on the topic can't possibly address the issues you're facing.

Well, with "The Ex Factor Guide", that's definitely not the case! Brad has covered every possible scenario and "what if," meaning that by the time you've finished reading the program, your questions are almost certain to have been answered in depth.


Not only is it the most comprehensive program, it's also the only guide that I have found that actually provides hundreds of real-world examples on how to apply Brad's techniques. Brad's chapter on text messages, for example, offers dozens of canned text messages you can send to your ex that are almost guaranteed to get a response!


Perhaps most importantly, it's very clear that the sneaky psychological techniques recommended by Brad in "The Ex Factor Guide" have been researched and tested by couples in the real world. Brad Browning is a certified relationship counselor, and his decades of experience working with couples to repair broken relationships is clearly evident throughout the book. He offers dozens of unique and ground-breaking ideas that I've never read anywhere else.


Brad claims that over 90% of all relationships can be salvaged, and while that may sound unreasonably high, I actually tend to think he's being completely honest. It's no stretch to imagine that, as he states on his website, anyone who reads and applies his techniques is almost guaranteed to have their ex begging for a second chance.

What about the program itself? The core of the program is a 125 page e-book, professionally written & presented in PDF format. There's also an audio version and a cool video course also included in the price, plus two excellent bonus e-books that cover various topics not addressed in the main e-book.


The best part? It's all available *instantly* from Brad's website... there's no shipping fees and no waiting around for the mailman, because you can download the entire program within 2 mintues of ordering. That's great news, considering that when you're trying to get your ex back, time is of the essence!


If you're ready to get instant access to all of Brad's sneaky psychological tips and techniques, head over to his website and watch the free video presentation now. Trust me, you won't regret it.